LOVE

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LOVE - A journey Why hold someone back............. when u know u dont love them Why keep them to your self............. when u know u wont wanna have them? Why let them miss other chances........when they can have them? If u really dont love someone....... let them go.......... hurt them now............ not later........... for a longer relationship builds stronger emotions.......... A good relationship isn`t a game u play or an ego trip u take. It is about love and two people. Loving someone can give us the greatest joy we can ever know and it can hurt more than we can believe too. When it does, not really hurt when that person did something disappointing to u, but really hurts when u see that person in pain and sadness, then u know u truly love that person. Loving someone means u should be ready to experience heartache and happiness at the same time. That`s the reward and that`s the risk. Unless we are willing to experience it, we will never really know what it`s like to love and be loved. Sharing love is probably the most valuable and meaningful experience a person can ever have And there`s a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone. It`s the difference between a love that`s fickle, wild and short-lived and one that`s tender and passionate, nurturing and lasts a long time. The first is easy. The second, the one that really matters to all of us, takes work because it`s about keeping a relationship. Loving someone takes efforts. We have to be able to communicate with each other. Nobody can read anyone else`s mind. We always presume that our partner knows what we think n feel. Maybe in time we might be able to predict or sense each other`s thoughts but it`s never perfect and takes time to develop. Getting the chance to love and be loved by someone is blessed. Respect him/her for who he/she is, and not what u want him/her to be. Everyone is pretty and special in his/her own special way. No one is perfect. It is true love which closes the gap of imperfectness to form a smooth surface of acceptance for each other. True love sees and accepts a person for who he/she is. It is also true love which makes a person change for the better. The power of true love to a person is undeniable. A relationship needs commitments too. What is love without commitments from each other anyway? It`s like principles and values. Everyone has them but they only mean as much as we are willing to stand for them. The same goes for our commitments to relationships, and the person we love. 'Love is like an antique vase. It`s hard to find, hard to net, but easy to break.' Everyday everywhere, poeple fall in love...... but just how many of these relationships are self-sacrificing love, and not just relationships which are formed only for the intense feeling of falling in love? I know many of friends who say the magical words 'I LOVE U'........ but more often than not, the truth is just - i am IN love with u. There is a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone. If a person says he/she is in love with u, he/she means that he/she likes u for who u are now and he/she fell in love with u because of the present u. This kind of love is temporary and lasts only as long as the fairy tale lasts. When fairy godmother comes in at midnight to whirl us back to reality, we see heartache of such a relationship.......... where both were only IN love with each other. But if a person says he/she loves u, he/she means that he/she loves u unconditionally for who u are now, who u were in the past and who u might be in the future. When he/she says he/she loves u and really means it, u have to ask yourself if u love him/her too or if you`re in love with the idea
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